I AM SO HAPPY TO BRING TO YOU THE ELEVENTH EPISODE OF LET'S TALK ABOUT IT WITH @OLUWATOBILOBA. IT IS JUST ALL ABOUT LOVE.....

It is a cold rainy morning over here and it is a very tempting reason to stay in bed all day, but since we have so many things to do, we just have to get up on time and look for ways to make a living for ourselves.
Dear friends, I must confess that I am really excited to have you around again today and your presence always put a smile on my face, thanks a lot for the love and the consistency, I cannot thank you enough for the support you have shown to me even when it looks as if I have absolutely nothing to offer. I really appreciate your love. Thanks a lot.

REPORT FROM LAST WEEK.

Last week's topic was rather confusing and I must confess that my little mind could not give a reasonable response, but when I read the comments, I was so relaxed and I was able to talk to my new friend who in turn was glad that he was able to get a solution to his troubled mind.

RELATIONSHIP QUESTION FOR THIS WEEK.

It looks as if the word 'love' is just used by anyone this days, even people who are flirts comfortably use the word I love you to everyone they are having an affair with, so I really want to know your opinion, what does love mean to you personally?
What do you think about does whose mouth quickly use the word love and they are unfaithful in their actions.

THE VERY INTERESTING RELATIONSHIP GIST FOR THIS WEEK.

Please I will just relax and allow this young man speak for himself, while I simply observe.
Hello, my name is Chidi, I am a young man of 28 years and because I had a little delay in academic pursuit, I am presently in my 300level in the university. Looking for ways to make ends meet has been my major drive in life, you know that period in your life when it looks as if you are the only person existing in your own world and you just have to look for ways to make ends meet.
Things have been really difficult since I have no one to support me and the little things I do to survive was not just enough to sustain me any longer.

I meet this young pretty lady who is a practicing law already, she is a year younger than I am, but she is very comfortable already, she said she liked the way I carried myself and I struggled even if things were not going my way and I was happy I had someone, we became very close friends and she was a friend who was always there for me through thick and thin.
Most times, I do not like to tell her I have any financial issue, but immediately I need help, I do not know how she knows but she just helps with what she can help with, and we are just very good friends.

I have meet with her parents on several occasions and they are very nice people who love their daughter unconditionally, and they are different from those rich men who will not want their child to associate with the low-classed individuals.
As a matter of fact, the man gives me some jobs to do, which makes me stay away from collecting money from my friend for a very long period.
After a year, we became lovers and I was okay with it, she was the only female friend I had and one who has always been there for me, so what else can I ask for, I asked myself?

The problem now is that, she has this young rich man who has been disturbing her and because he is very influential, she is scared that her father may change his mind about me and ask her to get married to the other influential man, since their parents are even close friends and business associates.
She wants us to get married this year, to me that is a very big problem because, I have no achievement at all, I don't want to be robbed off of my pride as a man, just imagine that when we are married, my wife will go to work and I will go to school, every money we have to spend will come from my wife and her family.

What if something happens one day, and she begins to insult me, what if she has an issue with my family members and she calls them gold diggers. The problem is that, I want to be able to provide for my family as well, even if she has more of the money currently, I also want to be a father to my children and not just someone who will have to ask Mummy for money before he can give to his children.

I know that if I refuse to marry her now, I might lose her to the other young man which means that I am going to lose my love and my best friend for life, she might as well look at me as an ingrate.
But, on the other hand, if I get married to her now, I might totally lose my pride as a man forever.

MODERATOR'S REMARK.

That is the gist for today oo, my darlings and I am sure that you are more than capable to help our friend out, please always feel free to say whatever is on your mind, my opinion might be different from yours and the fact that you have a different opinion does not make you the wrong person.

I appreciate the love shown and I greatly appreciate the support, I will just sit back and read what my amazing friends on this awesome platform, has for me today.
Thank you so much for believing this little me, I appreciate it so much.

SHOUT-OUTS.

@adoore-eu: Give my shout outs to the following people. To @jeline, you amaze me when you sent something to support my kitchen. May God support you and bless you abundantly.
To @rebeccafl, Kudos to you on your amebo work. Thanks for everything. Keep doing what you know best. Amebo fit you so much, and I am loving how you do it with class.
To @eberedeboss, @anikys3reasure, @oluwadamilola, I appreciate you all for your kind words.
To @jeaniepearl and @cheryldavis, thanks a bunch for your love and help. You are a rear gem.

@rebeccafl: Please, send a bowl of Ice cream to my steemit dairy readers.

CLOSING REMARK.

Please, you might like to show your support by encouraging the show in any way you can through funds of any kind, some of us put in so much effort consistently on this platform and get nothing, which is really sad, but we hope for the best every day.

Some of us are just betrayals, we easily forget the things people have done for us, and all that we are after is our own selfish interest which will fail us at the end of the day. It is not only about relationship with lovers, what about your relationship with your parents, your relationship with your friends, your relationship with your kids.
Some of us have this very bad habit of staying away from parents, friends and everyone who cares for us, who try to save us from that abusive relationship, we think that is the best for us and we just remain there and suffer all our lives only to have a life filled with regrets at an old age.
Some of us like unhealthy competitions, the only time we know we can do something is when someone else starts the same thing, and then you begin to use your connection to make the owner of the idea feel inferior.
People cannot tell you what they feel about you to your face, but you should do a deep search within yourself and tell yourself the simple truth you need to know.

This is what I love doing, I love it when I am the reason people have a smile on their faces, I love it when I am able to provide love again to a soul that has given up on love, this is my passion, so many of us did not grow up in an environment filled with love, so many of us have been broken, battered and bitter, but I believe that things can change and we can always find love again by opening up our heart to love. A love filled community, is a successful community.
I hope to take this show to the next level, to another level and to another level and I know that is only possible with your help and support. Thanks.

I am @oluwatobiloba, I am a lover and this is what I do.

Please feel free to reach me via: [email protected]. God bless.

SPONSORS SO FAR.

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