Thank you ma'am @adoore-eu for the shout out
I miss being here.

Well the word love has been abused by so many people. It is so annoying when you meet someone for the very first time and he is already confessing love. If you say you love me, lemme see it in your actions and not just shouting national pledge.

Hello Mr Chidi, I feel your pains. I know most men ain't comfortable when the woman is the breadwinner. Get a job or do a business that will bring steady flow of income. Do not be under pressure to get married. And please do not get into marriage without having something to do with your hands. Every parent want the best for their children.

You are in the relationship, so take your time and make a decision that would make you both happy.