This issue is very simple my young brother, afterall the lady in question had no issues in getting married to you, and what you're thinking about whether when you get married to the ladies, you will become liability to her, that is a big no.

As a Muslim, I believe that when you get married, Almighty Allah in his infinite mercy will provide for your need. It is also written in Quran that if you are afraid of poverty and you don't want to get married. You will not do anything at all.

Please just ride on, and never lose your wife to any fucking person.

@oluwatobiloba, keep the good work going.