They are just opposites capitalism without a head or leader just won't work.

Why do you assume anarchism to be apposed to leadership or hierarchy? By definition it is not, as I showed above. AnCaps/Voluntaryists/Market Anarchists are totally fine with voluntary hierarchies. It is coercion that we view as illegitimate.

And thanks for being open-minded. I am always glad to talk, and hope you understand that I am not "against you" either. I appreciate the commentary!