How do you define success in a new framework
Many business leaders appear highly successful based on concrete achievements and outward symbols of success. Their companies show impressive growth, they reside in desirable neighborhoods, and their vehicles are often large and luxurious.
Performance metrics indicate they are thriving, often ranking in the top tier of their industry. Yet, despite these accomplishments, many of these leaders internally struggle with feelings of inadequacy and unhappiness.
In moments of reflection, these executives recognize the compromises that have been made. Profit seems to take precedence over customer satisfaction and employee well-being.
There is an unsettling awareness that the work environment has shifted to one rooted in fear—a fear of failing to meet key performance indicators, a fear of not achieving the targets set before them.
After a long day, it is not uncommon for these leaders to return home carrying the weight of their responsibilities. They may find themselves raising their voices at family members, venting stress from work.
The urgency to check emails and stay connected to the business can overshadow personal relationships, highlighting a troubling connection between work and home life.
This raises a profound question regarding the nature of personal success. What if we shifted our perspective away from material gains and external validation?
To redefine success, consider a framework based on three distinct ideas:
First, any form of success that relies on public acknowledgment will inevitably lead to insecurity. This kind of validation can become addictive, much like other unhealthy habits.
Second, when success is solely about achieving specific goals, life becomes an endless race. The joy that should accompany achievements stays just out of reach, always on the horizon.
Third, if success revolves around what we can gather—wealth, status, resources—then fear will linger in the background. This fear manifests as anxiety over losing what we have or not acquiring what we desire. The struggle to succeed can result in constant stress and a heavy load to bear.
In truth, success is deeply personal and shaped by individual narratives. It is about the story we create about ourselves and our journey.
It is never too late to pause and reflect on what success means to you. Ask yourself:
What does success truly mean to me?
What changes do I need to make to feel successful on my own terms?