How sometimes the best people arrive without you looking for them

Best and most useful people can emerge suddenly and unnoticed. They plant flowers in our sad days, reflect our laughter, attract our complicity, dedication, and passions. This lighthouse never goes out and includes no inconsistencies or tensions...

We occasionally act like real predators towards each other, which may be humanity's greatest irony. We're not just talking about the more extreme behaviours of newspaper reporters, but also about the everyday activities we've all experienced that give rise to this idea. classic “I want you to be happy, but no more than me”.

Altruism can conceal hidden interests. Some people betray us. Perhaps because life changes us or the masks fall slowly, we learn that beneath this armour that intrigued us is a human being full of holes, restrictions, and unfathomable selfishness.

Even in our rich and comprehensive social fauna, there are people who are worth it and all the world's joys. Meeting them is usually based on chance, but it has some worthwhile aspects.

Just learn to see the nice folks.
What qualities do these people have that can improve our lives? Characteristics of good individuals We know that sayings like "my colleague is not a good person" and "my sister is a good person" are commonplace. Some reductive definitions are inadequate because human nature is more complex than these absolute words.

Most of us are always changing, sometimes doing right and sometimes being carelessly condemned as “bad people” for not acting as others would like. However, a number of crucial features or dimensions might describe these nobler profiles and symbolise the ideal of goodness we all want.

Being good implies above all, not self-centered. A good person identifies with others, feels compassion, behaves selflessly, and has empathy that comforts, supports, and authentically collaborates. Good people can also see beyond appearances.

We must also remember that these extraordinary people will only enter our life if we are open. They won't do so unless we see them, appreciate their energy, art, and natural connection. Social behaviour experts say individuals now notice undesirable attributes more than good ones.

This negativity might be fueled by discomfort, dissatisfaction, or memories of relational failures and betrayals. If scepticism floats in our sight and settles in our heart, it will be hard to see the warm light of these presences that deserve to join our life.

Finding Worthy People (and Joys)
We all quickly assess others daily.

Doctor Rick Hanson, a famous neuropsychologist and seasoned researcher in the "science of happiness," tells us that to connect more deeply with our fellow humans and perceive their innate nobility, we must stop, slow down, and read their positive intentions and genuine empathy.

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