Crucial strategies to become who you really are
We typically wear a social mask that hides our true selves. Unmasking this character and acknowledging our dark side are necessary to become oneself.
“It takes courage to grow up and become who you really are”
—EE Cummings
Finding and maintaining authenticity may be lonely in a society when social pressures and expectations impact our choices and behaviours. However, the story of a shy and quiet child struggling with social acceptance from an early age shows the difficulty and value of staying true to oneself.
Learning and self-expression comforted this preschooler who was first afraid. However, an urban neighbourhood that frowned on intelligence changed him. He made choices that repressed his inner personality to please others, showing how quickly one may get lost in the need to belong.
Life is a path of self-discovery and reaffirmation. We all encounter decisions that shape our authenticity, like this young person who found it through introspection and faith. Every decision and bravery to be yourself is a step towards a more real and satisfying existence.
In “10 Ways to Be Who You Really Are,” we will discuss ways to navigate this complicated but rewarding road. Each step, from self-acceptance to life on your own terms, strives to help you find and appreciate your actual self. As this young person's experience reveals, being true to yourself is courage and the cornerstone of a full life.
Practise expressing yourself daily, no matter how popular or banal. A simple dress choice or refusing a social engagement can tyre you.
Even a few minutes a day can help you connect with yourself instead than outside factors.
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Consider your childhood hobbies to find your actual self. Want to experiment today?
Express your principles with one simple act daily.
Multiple passions are different from surrendering your personality. Don't pressure yourself to choose the appropriate career. Sometimes you just have to decide and act.
Some folks naturally care what others think. These people tend to be empathetic. Take advantage of this strength and ask for help.
Because it's hard to say no, we sometimes compromise our identities. Answer requests for time or advice you cannot give on a little card. Don't be eloquent—“Um, I'll have to think about it” is sufficient.
Encourage and support those who stand out.
Buy a tiny journal to express yourself. It will be one of your greatest purchases. Write or draw for one minute a day. No warning needed.
Hang a poster with the post's opening quote or one that emphasises being yourself.
Though integration may seem to have buried your genuine self, you're closer than you believe. As a master, add to the list above. I'd love to hear your stories in the comments.
Here are the top 3 simple ways to become yourself:
Don't always participate!
Schedule a daily time to reflect on your feelings and reactions.
Hear your dreams! They can direct you.