Hey, yes I am not sure how I managed not to stab that guy in the neck with a fork...It was my sister's boyfriend though and I controlled myself for her benefit. She's not with him now so if I see him...It will not go well for him.

You're right about Dixie, we will miss her forever. We have a photo of her over our bedhead. I look at it daily.

Life throws up challenges and children are certainly one that takes a person down different paths...Not that I know, but I surmise. All we can do is make the most of what we are given, that's what design and create means. We have to take some ownership of our own lives. If a person does that then default-life is less likely.