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RE: What Have You Been Exposed To? Contributed by @Olawalium
I can see you talking about been jealous here.. Smile
Anyways, a little but healthy jealous is good for the growth of any relationship, if their is no little jealous, I doubt if the love is there.
But, been jealous cannot be said to mean been suspicious. Suspicion comes in when you are using your past to judge the present negatively. Because your ex behaved in a certain manner each time s/he want to tell lies does not mean your current bf/gf will lie behaving in that manner too. Lol
Though, the different between suspicion and jealous might be so little, but they achieve different result.
One is required to grow relationship, another one can destroy the whole of the relationship...
Those who use their past to judge the present need time to get through it. They cannot just switch all of a sudden. What they have been used to has registered in their mind, and it takes an honest soul to change that, with a lot of patience...but only them can help themselves. They need to deal with it from the inside.
Still on the same matter....
You have to admit something is wrong before you look for the alternative way to get it done....