The idea behind so called testing of a prospective wife with small amount of money to cook is to ascertain if she can still manage to provide food for her household with little cash when things get hard. Its not necessarily poverty mind but since life is filled with ups and down, one needs a companion who can always adjust to the economic situation. In pilling community clothes to tempt her, it a no no for me. If you need a maid hire one than waiting for who you'll tempt.