Have Goals and Dreams but, Do not attach your happiness to it. 🙂☘✌peace.

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Some peoples always desperately want positive outcome and they fear of losing But, what if the outcome doesn't matter?


Desperately working towards your goals, dreams and never ending desires which always expects positive outcome and we are clinging to it if we did not gets expected outcome then our mind sends a message to your subconscious mind that you are not happy now., presenlty. This will lead to an outcome, that does not fully make you happy.

Because, "The amount of happiness that you allows yourself to have on the journey that dictates the amount of happiness you will have at the destination."

That means, you have to realize that you can never fully control the outcome. The only thing you can really control are your actions that may lead to the desired outcome. So, the best way to work on your goals is by not attaching to your goals. By thinking "it would be nice if I achieve this, but if not, I am still happy." I am happy where I am now. Lets understand that you don't need to control the outcome. Because its not positive always as we expects. So, Have a goals but do not attach your happiness to it.

Because you are you.. You are soul, not a goal.

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I really loved the line " YOU ARE SOUL NOT A GOAL" . It's the human nature that we bring out the emotion based on the outcome ! . The more sorrow we feel from the output , the more we can't achieve it because we are radiating negative energy ..
Cheer on ! let's be happy :)

Thanks for you valuable view. Agree what you said..lets control emotions and be happy✌🦁😎

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