Create a better relationship with the most important person in your life: YOU
The concept of self relies on our mind and our interactions with other people. How others perceive us is beyond our control. We do, however, have ourselves to deal with FOREVER, for as long as we are around. Wouldn’t it be great if we have a good relationship with ourselves as the only constant entities we are with every day of our lives? Here are four ways to improve our relationships with ourselves:
Get to know YOU
There are many exercises and tests that can lead to a better understanding of the self. Use this to gauge critical characteristics such as grit, happiness, and creativity among others. This way, we’ll know and understand where we are at the moment, and we’ll be more enlightened as to where we are going.
Be more open-minded
It pays to deviate from the usual for as long as it won’t harm our bodies, minds, and relationships. We always have the option to read, travel, and interact outside our comfort zone. We should also be open to ideas particularly those that we dislike BUT beneficial to our overall well-being.
Do an audit
It can be an audit of relationships, habits, properties. Anything. Just try to put things down on paper. We’ll be surprised at how much we don’t know about specific aspects of our lives. This way, we’ll get to see the big picture through the small details.
Forgive
There is nothing more freeing and more moving that forgiving one’s self. We are not perfect; we make mistakes every day. The process of forgiveness is not solely for those who wronged us; it is also for ourselves and our sanity. Recognize mistakes, forgive, and move the hell on.
We hope these simple ways allow you to get to know yourself more. After all, you always, always have to be the better YOU.
As if being open-minded is a decision. It's mostly hard-wired in the brain and getting out of it is a significant effort.
True but we can slowly learn it.
Everything we do is for ourselves. To the best of our knowledge at least.
This is what I'm talking about actually. People are selfish by nature.
This is the sad reality of life and people.
We always will be.
We have a lot of potential to change you know.
I see you think people are selfish, but you think there's potential. That's a lot of conflict.
Potential is just that. Potential. It doesn't work if you don't act on it.
Yeah @japalekhin, but do people really want to change. I mean deep down inside.
Yes I believe people are selfish but has lots of potential and given the chance are willing to change.
That's the definition of "human".
Thank you for this wonderful list.
Okay w're going into narcissism territory here.