@fred703
It is indeed a dilemma, and one we in today's day and age need to consider with even more detail, as we live in a world now filled with "Lies" of many forms. The saying: "I give you my word" almost means nothing for the most part, and you would be hard pressed to find people who still stick to their word.
My Dad was one of those individuals who stuck by his word no matter what, and every time I catch myself wanting to move from the truth and discard my integrity, I think of him and somehow I get right back in line, lol
We as a species need to "travel" back in time to a place where those words held it's meaning because at the end of the day without integrity what do we have left.
stay blessed and true to you.