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RE: 14 Truths About Trolls - Stats & Analysis Behind The Madness

in #steemit8 years ago

While I am grateful for what you have written here regarding your perception of internet trolls, I bristle sometimes at the usage of the word "troll" since it, like many labels, is often subjectively applied to find fault with or invalidate or otherwise put shame onto someone's differing perspective.

I'm not sure if you are familiar with the concept of Nonviolent Communication (NVC), but whenever I perceive someone saying or doing something that triggers me, I think to myself that the person is simply tragically expressing their unmet needs in ways that are unlikely to meet those needs. I don't want to put some people in a box labeled "trolls" since that creates certain unhelpful connotations that can cloud my perception of their humanity. If I lack the capacity in the moment to response compassionately to those whose communication does not meet my needs (understanding, compassion, respect, etc.), then I have learned the hard way through experience to remain silent and disengage until I can or simply move on, especially if it's just words on the Internet since they only have power over me when I focus my attention on them. I don't perceive verbal punishments through the use of shaming messages, ridicule, or moralistic judgments to be useful if I genuinely desire respect and understanding in the communication of others.

Also, I would like to add that it's possible to interact compassionately with those who have claimed to be victims of violence while still maintaining a healthy dose of skepticism on a site where such stories may result in financial reward, regardless of the veracity of such claims. Empathy and skepticism need not be mutually exclusive.

Thanks for your thought-provoking article.

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Great comment. And you bring up a good point with the nvc. I also agree that "trolls" encapsulates far to many subgroups to pinpoint a specific behavior. This was as much a study for me about the thought behind the screen as an article about trolls. I wanted to put myself in a similar position and remove d myself that no matter what people say, everyone has value. Some people are harder to find that value in than those bursting with it, but we all have pain and hurt in our lives that we deal with in different ways. I appreciate you taking the time with a well put together response. I value opinions like yours, and am glad you found the article and what I added to it to be thought provoking. I'd love for many people to weigh in, but even just one good comment makes me feel justified in spending the time creating it. (I'm no writer by trade by any means so it is still slow going, but I like to make people think and smile within the same post if appropriate)

You're welcome! I agree that everyone has value that we can perceive if we take the time to understand them, even though some obscure that value through less effective communication strategies. I am grateful that I was able to provide you with one good comment. I don't comment often since I want to take the time to write something valuable, but you have encouraged me to write more in the future. Eventually I will get around to writing posts of my own and hopefully gaining more Steem Power to provide my upvotes with more value to you. :-)

As long as your comments add value through constructive criticism, humor, or engage the poster with questions, then I would advise you to continue to comment a lot. As a fellow minnow you can learn (and earn) quite a bit of knowledge and money through great comments. With comments you also don't need to think up an incredible post. I myself am still fiddling with my style of writing and learning each day. The best place for minnows is the comments section and to write some great articles and take feedback from those that comment to heart. Wish you much success!

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