I can relate to this. I myself dedicate most of my time, doing house work, cooking, watching 2 girls and catering to my husband. I don't do it because he is a lazy piece of shit. He works very hard for us and provides as much as he can. This woman was in a tight spot and she felt like she had to because he was American and he meant money and happiness. It's terrible the way people take advantage of each other and not even realize it. She does need to open her mouth and tell her husband how she feels.
I feel bad for her.
I read this and thought I was in this. But then again I have a voice and I tell m husband on some days, I don't feel like doing anything for you. I want to focus on myself. He would understand and do things for himself.
I'm so glad you have communication on your side. It infuriates me when I see situations like theirs where nothing is being said or done. And FWIW, even men from her culture were shocked by the level of work she was putting in compared to him. Sad. Always advocate for yourself. Glad you do.