"get on with things".

Oh how many times hear that! When I was in a doctor's office (the insurance made me go to one of their so-called IME- independent medical evaluation) doctors, he was rude and condescending. I blew up at him when he said...
"I don't see what the problem is... you were in a car accident and you survived. It's time to move on..."

I went off on his a$$ and in his report he said I was defensive and showed signs of hostility all because I yelled at him and said; have you ever been rear-ended by a semi truck? No.. probably not. I'm pissed off and my life is not what it used to be.
So if that makes me hostile, then so be it.

I look back on that black time and realise how far I have come
I'm not going to let my head or a stupid accident stop me.

Some day I want this to be me too.

Glad you were ok after all the time to heal.

Healing bones is one thing, I've never had to heal emotionally like this before, not even when I divorced my first husband. It is so draining on one's psyche.