Negative experiences shape you in a powerful way.

How you deal with these events is a very personal journey, for sure.

Projecting these events to fit a world view is not constructive on a personal level to healing.

I was raped by (ex) husband beyond count. A long time ago. In the past.

I don't see the world as one of 'rape culture'. I see it as my circumstances created what happened ( not my fault).
I got past the anger (shame, a little, not much) of what was done to me, but refused to see the world in terms of what my husband decided I should see them.

Men are all powerful, in charge. They make the decisions.

Fuck that! lol

Don't let the predators win by allowing them to decide for you, how you see the world.