Hi @anarcotech, sorry to hear about the split. Have you read Jesper Juul books as a couple? They are amazing talking a lot about how to be your own person and great parents (also relevant for separated parents).

I don't have advice other than that your daughter will be ok no matter what you decide to do or what you will be forced to do by circumstances. You both love her and she will develop into a person with good and bad experiences and will learn from them. Don't beat yourself up if it's not 'perfect' it will still be good enough!! You sound like a great dad.