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RE: 11th Parenting –Observing a Child: Socio-emotional Development
I believe each child is very unique as you have mentioned, you can take those pointers as a reference since a girl and a boy is very different; moreover even between siblings their behaviour can be very different.
Especially middle child syndrome.
I agree it is not easy to love your kids all equally when you have more than one. I see my brother struggle at times to be as fair as possible.
That's part and parcel of life.
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Thanks for your feedback. Actually, this is uneasy for me who came from a traditional Chinese family to love a baby girl. Because my mum expects to have a baby boy. I love my baby girl to treat her as a gift from God.
Let me tell you the truth, my mom used to (and still kind of) spoil the boys a little more than the girls; but has come to acceptance that daughters tend to have more caring attitude when dealing with parents' golden age.
Maybe when your little baby girl grows up with a caring heart your mom will appreciate that more.
For boys it is just a legacy thing. Passing the surname from one generation to another.
Yes, thanks for your encouraging words.