RE: Disorganized, Contributed by @Olawalium
I am talking about a disorganized person.
A disorganized person to me always struggle to stay focused, will always feel reluctant to do thing in the manner as sense that is acceptable. A disorganized person will exhibit I don't care attitude, never felt concerned about things around him, will be frustrated, easily back out from associate. Always exhibit lackadaisical attitude towards task, people and even himself. A disorganized person is only delighted In refreshment , who has lost the willing power or driving force to do things accordingly.
Though, a disorganized person tend to be more intelligent since they engaged in more activities simultaneously, which make them to be more verbal and creative, if I'm not wrong?
When you are disorganized, you are viewed differently.
I agree with you, if you disorganized person, you might have people with you, but they won't trust you enough to put you incharge or to manage anything, therefore you will always be subordinate, havent you think of that for once.
I remember this adage in Yoruba which goes like whosoever step or matched on his own clothe will surely tears others clothe apart, people don't always trust a disorganized person since they believe they are too careless to be dealing with.
It is good to be known for good stuff. Let your friends know they can depend on you and when they are down to the last option
You are correct, if you are up and doing, and people see the driving force and spirit of planing well and always stay focused, you will always be call upon anytime and any day.
Thanks for sharing your personal experience for clarification, you are good at this brother. I'm looking forward to the second reading and see how you will prefer solution to disorganized person, I'm looking forward to that.
I always love your analysis and well thought out response. Always something to learn from your comments with diverse views. Thanks a lot.
I beg to differ a little there. An intelligent person would always strive for perfection. If you are intelligent, it cuts across how you do things and get things done. You know to be intelligent deals with the mental aspect and when you are disorganized, it drains you mentally, because you always leave things to the last minute, it stresses you, affects messes with your peace as well.
If you know of an exceptional case, I would love to learn about it too, but for someone to be intelligent, we can't call the person disorganized. Intelligent people always want to pay attention to little details, and like you said about disorganized people, they have lackadaisical attitude towards things.
I will share it with you sooner.
Perfect.
Disorganized person could be of two way as I view it in your post, there are some people who are tend to be very rough talking about environmental things but never procastinate about things that are important and valuable.
I want to hear your opinion before I share why I said they are something more intelligence. You know we always have negative and positive aspects of something just like a debate. I agree with you on what you post brother.
I think the perfect title to your post would a disorganized person with high grade of procrastination.
Wait for the part two and three before you think the title is misleading.
Being disorganized involves every aspect of life. As much as i might want to agree with you that there are few exceptions, being disorganized also involve your thought process, material aspect, environmental too, which is the one you are focusing on. They are all connected in some ways because when they say someone is intelligent, you would agree that the person pays attention to details. Organization is organization brother. In this world, we tend to use words to praise people without involving every other aspect of that person's life.
For instance, when they say someone is really sound, you will agree that, it means that person covers varying range of topics. So, when they say someone is organized, it means that person has his thoughts, words, and things so detailed and organized. The choice of the word "intelligence" that you used is what is trying to drag the focus of the message away.
Alright bro, you are the best, I got inspired all the time I read your piece. Hope you don't think I'm being negativity. I respect your decision. Where are you staying? I can't wait to meet you for real.
You are right, just opinion.
Don't always forget bro, we are both learning together. That is the essence of discussion. Of course I love your view, they are always detailed and on point. I always look forward to reading your comments because I know it will inspire another thought. Keep at it.
Negative? Hahaha never. You are not negative. I always love when people share practical examples, it helps us all. Don't you ever think you are being negative by expressing your views.
I would absolutely be delighted to see you too brother. I stay in Ibadan, and You?
Ibadan for now, you can drop your number