Life is not all about chocolates , cakes or sweets.
Its about our purpose in life. Pain doesn't necessarily mean that we're deprived of happiness or joy. Pain is also a purification for the growth of our virtues not vices.
Its not all about what we want in our lives, but its about our responsibilities and duties to serve for the common good.
We don't live alone just to serve our own selves and desires.
We are community of mankind living together and connected to serve each other.
If we have our personal dreams, let's think deeper, analyze, ponder and discern whether these dreams will serve for all or for our own personal interests, desires and pleasures.