It is really a trouble if you do not know enough yourself. It is sad to hear such story, and as I reflect on it, I have realized that it is a matter of honesty. Be honest with yourself of what you really feel and communicate. Communicate with your partner in all honesty, let him understand where is the doubt coming from. Let him know about the things that you shared in here. And if after that conversation you feel like you are a bird that have been set free from his cage, then I hope that you can find your true freedom, not from your relationship but from the bondage of self-doubts, maybes, second thoughts and what ifs. I hope you will find liberty from within. And just like a caged bird who has been freed, I hope you will find your true self, not what your family, friends, or colleagues expect you to be, but the real person the Lord designed you to be who is free from all pretentions. I hope you will be a bird that will soar high and will not live by merely pleasing the people around you. And this goes to the people who have been caught up with different situations in life that led them to choosing between difficult choices. To the people who have been so doubtful that finding the way out seems very impossible. This is for the people who have been so confusedof the situations in his life just like what I’m currently going through. We’ll pass through this. 🙂