When you don’t allow the process to happen after a massive heartbreak, you have left yourself in a vulnerable state. A state where you can accept any kind of love, and when you do, only much later would you be able to see what a great mistake you have made. For some, it can be corrected​ and leaves a scar. For others, it can’t, and you end up living with it.

This is the main reason why people go from one broken relationship to another, when the heart is not completely healed before you go into a new relationship, you begin to suspect the new partner with every wrong move. You lack the courage to trust because you don't want to experience another broken heart, and in return, you are not free to release your totality into the relationship.

Love is to be enjoyed and not to be endured

You see people comparing their new partner with the old, because they are still ruled by the old memories, take time to heal yourself, allow the healing process to complete before you jump into another.

Not all would have the grace to amend imperfection when your eyes finally opened, because it would definitely open.

Learn to love and trust yourself after a broken heart that you are good enough, things don't just work out, this self confidence would help you to be able to replicate it on your partner...

Waiting for the 2nd episode anxiously.....