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RE: Making the Most of a Breakup
That's not off-topic at all, I'm with you 100%! People that pretend to be someone else to please their partner almost never have a successful relationship, because you're right, they can't keep the act up forever. Even if they could, they'd be lying to themselves and feel crappy all the time.
Also thanks for the support and follow!
No worries awesome sorry just meant I sort of went off on a tangent.
I just see it as a really big issue in society today and I don't know if it is because of people mostly communicating online they can represent themselves in any way they like, but when reality hits home disaster strikes - why change who you are for someone else.
If they aren't interested in you for you then is it really worth wasting our precious time here for someone who doesn't see your true value - not too mention it's not saying they wouldn't have liked the real you but you can't be one person for a few years then suddenly hey look I'm actually like this now - it's more the sense of betrayal that someone they cared for had essentially lied to them.
It's just a weird trend that seems to be taking off more and more these days.