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RE: Making the Most of a Breakup
I agree with you but I also have to say, I think relationships in general would go better if people were just themselves fromt eh get go.
I find a lot of people when they meet someone they are attracted to try and represent themselves in a way they think that person would best respond I think this is a huge issue for people today.
We need to be who we are for us not some fake image of ourselves to get someone to like us no one can keep that up for life and the relationship is doomed to fail.
Sorry if it's a but off topic but yeah just my opinion, good article liked and followed!
That's not off-topic at all, I'm with you 100%! People that pretend to be someone else to please their partner almost never have a successful relationship, because you're right, they can't keep the act up forever. Even if they could, they'd be lying to themselves and feel crappy all the time.
Also thanks for the support and follow!
No worries awesome sorry just meant I sort of went off on a tangent.
I just see it as a really big issue in society today and I don't know if it is because of people mostly communicating online they can represent themselves in any way they like, but when reality hits home disaster strikes - why change who you are for someone else.
If they aren't interested in you for you then is it really worth wasting our precious time here for someone who doesn't see your true value - not too mention it's not saying they wouldn't have liked the real you but you can't be one person for a few years then suddenly hey look I'm actually like this now - it's more the sense of betrayal that someone they cared for had essentially lied to them.
It's just a weird trend that seems to be taking off more and more these days.