RE: The Debate on whether or not to homeschool - what is best for children?
Wow. What a comprehensive post on your issue. You seem to have all the basics wrapped up, now it seems that you just need to follow your heart and instinct.
Although I do not have children of my own, I have spent a fair bit of time researching the topic. The reason I have done so is because the schooling system (western schooling system at least), is a very integral part to the current domination and suppression the world is facing.
It actually came up during research of the 1 percenters, and how the current school system was created to create a new breed of factory workers.
After the industrial revolution, the powers that be saw a need for what i like to call admin/pen-pushers for their high rising buildings to fill. It was a smart idea. Train people, at a young age, where they absorb the most information, on how to be good, productive little worker bees, who pay tax, vote, and contribute the very corrupt system that we live in. It wasn't all that bad, for our parents that is. Remember, I might be wrong but I believe the current schooling system was only founded in the 50's. I am not sure what happened before, but I do know a couple of things about the current system.
- They teach you how to dedicate most of your life to 'earn' money, not make money. It's a reward system they teach. Shuttup, listen, repeat, and we'll give you good grades. After school, when you get a job, its, shuttup, listen, repeat. They teach you that you can only have fun after work, and only on weekends. Sound familiar? How many of us love Friday because its the end of the work week.
- There is no education on how to handle money, express yourself, and self discovery. All of these things are suppressed.
I have met some young kids who are not even homeschooled as such. The one kid, 15, working with his father and learning how to be a carpenter. Already earning an income, I even think hes paying tax, or at least he understands how it works. Understands how money works and how to use it wisely. At the age of 15!
It is easy for me to sit here and type and give suggestions when I am not even near that kind of decsion, but I do believe I have made my mind up on what I would do, and it is certainly not send my kid to a typical school.
Here in South Africa, some concerned parents are offering a different type of unschooling school. I dont know too much about it, but that could be an option for you @jessica-miller. A bit of a hybrid.
Anyway, my cents. Thank you for reading
Wow, thank you, I never knew the background of why our school systems are like they are, but it definitely makes sense. I've seen plenty of the "shampoo, rinse, repeat" mentality throughout my education and my children's as well. I have seen some articles on unschooling and it may be something that I integrate in later years, but in my opinion, that is too much responsibility to place on a young child. They should have a little more structure to begin, at least to gain the basics. In my understanding, unschooling involves the child telling you what they want to learn and when. I need to do more research into it, but I think it may be a type of education best suited for students that already have the basics down...letters, numbers, colors, writing, basic math etc. Thank you very much for your input, I aim at learning something new everyday!
You will have to do more research on unschooling to grasp it better. I unschool my three elementary children. The thing is that children are ALWAYS learning. Unschooling is a continuation of what they have done up until school age -- they learned to walk and talk without any teacher or curriculum. One funny thought I've read is that if the government told us that our 6-month babies MUST go to crawling/walking/talking school ... before long everybody would believe that children would never learn to crawl, walk or talk without schools or without curriculum.
As for the exhaustion you mention in your post -- that would not be as much of a problem with unschooling. You are probably going to have your children home with you up until school-age, so when the time comes you will know if you like being with your children all day or not. For myself, I could not stand the thought of sending my precious babies to kindergarten when the time came. I am a very "attached" parent and they were very "attached" little children.
Unschooling is something we are definitely looking into in more depth, I just don't understand it fully at this point. I hope to not have to use daycares...been there, done that, not fond of them. Hopefully finances will allow that. Thank you for your insight and input, I enjoy hearing from parents that are going through the experience.
You would probably enjoy this book: "Project Based Homeschooling". It is almost unschooling. There is "structure" but it is the parent who needs to be structured to record and fully help her child in figuring out what their interests are and how to continue to encourage further exploration of those interests and how to facilitate them.
For me, I'm more of a "wing-it" girl. So I LOVED the concepts in this book but never quite implemented them in the structured way presented. I learned a lot though. Have a read! The thing about homeschooling/unschooling is to READ, READ, READ and then grab the concepts that you like and that actually work for you and your family.
http://project-based-homeschooling.com/camp-creek-blog