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RE: When Someone Is Not Who You Think They Are
What I have learned is the majority of people in our society seem to have this "best version" of themselves up for the first 3 months of a relationship. After that you find out who they really are.
Wish it wasn't so. I'm more of what you see is what you get, transparency advocate. Seems to throw people off though...LOL.
So true! You have to date someone like a year before fully getting to know them. It sucks, Why waste time? Just show yourself.
you are still not answering why you feel justified to go and flag every post i ever made and then to spend the rest of the night instantly flagging anything elese i posted. all because on your post "is online dating good for scocity?" where i commeted "its sad and depressing imo" you then went to my page and flagged all my posts? why? how was your actions that made me start spamming you for answers not trolling? you took my rating down from 37 to 2. why was that ok in your eyes?
Hey @nameles spamming the comments like this is a good way to continue to be flagged. Move on, post new content increase your reputation if its important to you. Making posts calling someone a bitch/cunt and spamming their comments wont get you anything positive from the community.
No one "owes" you an explanation on how they vote. But people will continue to flag off-topic and spammy comments like this. I get it, you're mad, but this isnt helping you.
she already dropped my rating to 2 what difference does it make if I get flagged more? I no longer care about the community here because all of you have shown over and over you will support her flagging someone for no reason and killing there rating but the second someone does the same back to her the steemit community jumps in to tell people how they need to stop. meanwile none of you tell her that what she did was wrong or ask her to defend her stance or give reasons for it. I understand no one owes me explanations for anything. I told her it would stop if she just said why she did it and why she finds her acions justified. also understand I do not owe her anything but more spamming for she cant even give the respect she thinks she deserves by saying why she went and flagged every post I ever made b4 I started bothering her. nothing is going to help me besides her removing all the flagging she did and giving an apologie/reason on why she did what she did. she knows she is in the wrong that is why she is not answering and just keeps flagging. his could have been over long time ago. she is the one dragging it out. after how I have been treated my first 3 days here I have no want to stick around after I get her reason why, an apologie or complete banning. it will still say forever on her posts how she did this to someone for no reason and couldn't back up her action let alone take accountability for it.
thanx for trying to help but nothing going to change this except her finally answering why she feels justifiyed in flagging everyhing I had ever posted and spent a whole night instant flagging anything I posted because I had a different opinion then she does about online dating.
Agreed. Have to admit you have kind of become my steemit source of motivation, being that I feel the "life" related stuff we both write is on the same wave length. However, your posts get way more votes and votes that actually make money. (I have a post with 24 votes worth $0.00...LMAO) So I keep plugging away nearly as much trying to build that following.
In fact I made my first VIDEO post today (while sick as a dog) to take it another level and set an example about people taking action. Sadly, no much feedback, but I'm still proud of the message and the rawness of the video.
Aww man! Keep trying you'll get it. get better you don't need to be sick :( Get some rest and keep posting!
you are still not answering why you feel justified to go and flag every post i ever made and then to spend the rest of the night instantly flagging anything elese i posted. all because on you post "is online dating good for scocity?" where i commeted "its sad and depressing imo" you then went to my page and flagged all my posts? why? how was your actions that made me start spamming you for answers not trolling? you took my rating down from 37 to 2. why was that ok in your eyes?