I understand completely. We all need some time alone to just "be". Just turn down the heat of our emotions, thoughts, hopes & worries to a steady simmer and let them stew for a bit. What usually comes out is greater perspective and a feeling of relaxation and direction. It's almost akin to gaining some sense of control, of comfortableness in your own skin, and putting things back on your terms where things make sense. Of course, a glass of good vino and good music always helps! :) Have a great weekend!