How to Say NO with Love and Kindness!

in #life6 years ago

How to Say NO with Love and Kindness!

How do we say "no" with love and kindness behind it?

This is something I am working on and I am learning because this has been a big challenge for me, especially over the last several years.

Thank you for reading about day 196 of Happier People Podcast and I hope you enjoy it!

How to Say NO with Love and Kindness! #196

As you have helped things go so well with everything I do online, then people want stuff.

People have asked me just thousands of things.

"Jerry, watch my video. Jerry, will you review my cryptocurrency? Jerry, will you upvote my post? Jerry, will you resteem my post? Jerry, Jerry, Jerry."

One of the biggest struggles I've had with this is saying "no" with love and kindness behind it because there is a huge difference in saying, "No, your idea looks stupid. No, I'm not sharing your spammy posts. No, why do you waste my time with this?" versus taking that tiny bit of extra energy or sometimes a big amount of extra energy to say "no" nicely.

The answer is the same either way, but the effect on the receiver can be drastically different.

Read more on my website at https://jerrybanfield.com/say-no-with-love and watch the full video below!

Love,

Jerry Banfield

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hi Jerry

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your content very crieative. i learning always your content... i like your information. thank you.

When a person gets popular and gets fame then he has to pay for it

People really aspects too much from you

And it’s not possible every time to say yes

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no @jerrybanfield I will not watch your video...
@jerrybanfield I will watch later when I get free from my daily work, you always share informative work...
Which one should I use to say no...

Really raised question @jerrybanfield , According to my opinion while saying 'No' in Love we have to use "Passive voice" instead of "Active voice"
What do you think @jerrybanfield ?

I learn with u...... Plz, your support...thanks.

I like your post .

I would like know about your earnings from steemit.

all right, I agree with you and I know what you want to say.
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