Thank you for your article and making me aware of it. Yes, resilience is an important topic that is very popular at the moment in the world of psychology. I don't want to disagree with this view, but maybe add another and for me even deeper topic. This whole notion of "what doesn't kill you, will make you stronger" and part of Nietzsches philosophy runs very deep in our society. It operates within the presupposition, that the "goal" is to become better and overcome yourself. I have a totally different view on that. What if you don't need to "become better" at all? What if what you are and what you experience in your life as hardships, are not lessons, that are here to make you better, but opportunities to love yourself more the way you are? These is my take on the topic of hardship. Blessing!