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RE: Sunday, paddling day and some deep thoughts of monday morning
How long relationship have you two had?
I wish people would send me nudes, but they very rarely do...
But relationships are difficult. It's never basically a Disney princess story, but instead it requires surprisingly large amounts of taking the other one in consideration, communicating with them (this is very difficult), self growth, battling own and other ones issues and insecurities etc.
My life is not ordinary and stable though, as I do not have any horses - I do not need to live as a stable.
We've been together for only about two years now. The start was rough and as a concequence everything has continued that way too.. I'm sad that I just haven't been able to get over things and everything turned me insecure and weak instead. It's very hard for both of us. And it's even more difficult to get over especially because there has always been people around us who kind of test our relationship and trust by shamelessly doing things.. I wish I just wouldn't care, but I do.
I suggest you ask your wife for nudes in order avoid trouble. Of if you are sure it's not a problem for you and wifey, I might just know someone who is eager to send nude pics of herself to taken people ;)
Your unordinarity and unstability comforts me, because now I know I don't have to be stable either since I'm not a horse, or own one!
P.s. I appreciate you started following me! You are one of my favourite steemians/steemers (whatever) because of your goofy comments and posts. This is goals. :) Feels like I have accomplished something here.
I have a bad habit to reply starting to comment from bottom to top.
But yes, I had thought I was following you already, but it seems I didn't, so I decided to fix it :)
I could ask nudes from my wife but I've already seen her naked, so it's basically repetition of the same old. I'm not sure what my wife would think of people sending nudes to me, but this would be the perfect way to find out! We could also see the nudes together and make our own comments about it. It could be a fun game for couples!
Two years is already a quite long time, even though we will never find a time when everything is perfect and smooth. The important thing usually is that both know what they want, know what they do and then live by it. I have a lot of female friends and I'm somewhat flirty, but luckily I'm ugly enough not to make anyone else attracted to me so my wife won't need to feel jealous. It's about the small things.
Hopefully you can work your way through anything what is bothering you and your relationship :)
I'm glad you fixed it!
Let me/us know if you try that nude pic game together or without your wife, I'm sure you'd be able to make a hilarious post about that topic!
It's not all about the looks, personality matters! ;) I'm sure there are girls attracted to you, but maybe it's just that you're worth the trust and your wife knows you would never hurt her.
We are hoping for getting everything back on track too. Maybe the trip around the world "saves us" and we'll defeat the trust issues. Feels kinda like trying to save a marriage with getting a baby, minus the baby. Not that I'd have any previous experience of that, but I think it might feel similar...
I'll just skip the fun jokes to the difficult part:
You can try to travel anywhere to help your relationship, but when you get back home it's all still there.
If you want to share your life with someone, the issues usually need to be solved at home.
Good luck.