RE: My 18 Year Old Self Asks, What Kind Of Life Is That?
You echo so many of my own thoughts here! This post is so balanced and real. North America is so caught up in the extreme, and there are plenty of those who will see the lifestyle you and Ini lead (and the one drew and I are trying to build) as extreme for today's time, but this post really shows the balance of mindset that is both present in this way of living, and needed here, in today's world. It's not extreme to have an open mind.
I never really wanted the white picket fence life, and I remember telling that to my family over dinner at 11 years old. But of course, I never considered that the world would need people who have the earth, and connection between people, and community, and a self sustaining mentality, as part of their priorities. I completely agree with your thoughts too about college... I went for a few years and had the same feeling, like I was just on a track, a one way track toward, well, not exactly my own passions or dreams (because I barely knew what they were) but that I was constantly picking through the options in the box, when really what my soul wanted and needed was to be creating the world outside of that box. I never really thought of it till I read this post. But I wonder, is there any coincidence as to whyyyy they call the highest form of the higher learning experience "doctoring"? Just a thought.
Thanks for the great post. Our ability as humans to reflect is where a lot of strength comes from, as it helps us see where we've been, our old thought patterns, our old ways of conditioning and programming, and how we can further seek to do something... Different... Rather than hopping on the same old train on the same old track.
Just some really nice insight here. Gratitude Wren 🙏 you guys do great work.
thank you for your wonderful and reflective response!
You put this so well... And I think it's an excellent summary of the gist I was getting at. In other times perhaps this wasn't as necessary, and we can see past generations weren't seeking to "balance" our culture in this way. In fact, most of my grandparents made it as far away from the farm as they could!! Each generation I think is given this task of balancing their time with right livelihood - for ours, I think the split so many of us (including you and Drew) are feeling is this split with the earth and the need to return using the skills we've gleaned in our modern culture with the resurgence of old yet timeless wisdom.
Again, thanks for your apt reflection-- I, too, can relate to much of what you said! The "white picket fence" dream never called me to either. I think that dissatisfaction so many of us feel is a secret gift leading us "outside of the box" as you say :D <3