Steemit Engagement Challenge S12W6 | "Farewell"
Hello,I'm @sumayaorin , from #Bangladesh
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Let's start with the quiet, bittersweet farewells, the ones that tug at your heartstrings. I'm a military wife, and farewells from home are practically a recurring theme in my life. These farewells aren't always grand events, but they leave an indelible mark. It's that mix of excitement for a new adventure and the pang of sadness from leaving behind a place where memories were woven into the very fabric of the walls.
Now, each farewell from home is a story of its own. The last one? The experience evoked a wide range of emotions. We have established a vibrant social circle, cherished countless memories, and cultivated a deep sense of connection and inclusion. Saying goodbye involved tearful embraces, packing up our lives, and leaving behind a piece of our hearts. These farewells remind me of the transient nature of life and how we should savor every moment with our loved ones, for we never truly realize what we have until it's time to say goodbye.
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Yes, I've had my fair share of involuntary farewells. One instance that lingers in my memory is when I had to bid adieu to my first job in 2019. I'd invested my time and heart into it, and my colleagues had become like a second family. The decision to depart was a challenging one, yet it was imperative in order to prioritise the upbringing of my daughter. My resignation day was filled with responsibility as I considered the big decision. So I navigated a broad range of emotions.
Involuntary farewells teach us something different. They show us how life can throw curveballs, and we need to be resilient and adaptable. They underline the importance of a strong support system to help us navigate through the whirlwind of emotions, reminding us that even in the toughest farewells, we're never truly alone.
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As a military wife, being prepared for farewells is practically part of our lifestyle. It never gets easier, but I have some coping mechanisms. Focusing on the positives—new activities, new people, and the possibility to change places—is key. Despite our strength, we always feel heavy about abandoning another piece of our life's puzzle.
Being prepared doesn't make life easy, but it helps me be happy and resilient. My strength comes from military spouses and my husband's understanding.Yet, even with all the preparation, the moment of farewell remains a poignant one, filled with the weight of the unknown.
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Farewells, whether from home, jobs, or friends, are the most unexpected life teachers. They've taught me resilience, adaptation, and finding the positive in any scenario. These experiences teach me that change is inevitable and must be accepted, even when it hurts.
Farewells also emphasise the value of relationships and cherishing every minute with loved ones. They've made me value the power of a strong support system, a lifeline during emotional farewells. They've shown me that even in the midst of goodbyes, the bonds we share with others remain etched in our hearts.
In a nutshell, farewells are a recurring theme in my life, and while they're never a breeze, they've added a touch of diversity to my journey and bestowed priceless life lessons. Whether it's the farewell from home, an involuntary parting, or preparing for the next farewell, each experience has shaped me into a more resilient and appreciative individual. Farewells may be challenging, but they're also opportunities for growth and self-discovery, accompanied by a heart full of emotions and a spirit strengthened by the journey.
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You're absolutely right, farewells from home are a common theme for military wives, causing both excitement and sadness (you're a strong woman). These emotional experiences, often involving involuntary separations or job dismissals, teach resilience, adaptation, and the importance of a strong support system (thank goodness God created us with these characters especially adaptation). The moment of farewell is a poignant one, filled with the weight of the unknown, and teaches the value of relationships and bonds.(reason we should value our relationship with our loved ones and friends). Success!
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Thank you so much, dear @goodbest for such words as a comment. Farewells are a regular part of our life. Although farewells are not pleasant, deep down in our hearts, they always leave an ache for the loved one and the place we left behind. However, coping with them and embracing new beginnings in a new place is a valuable lesson for us as a military family.
And Thank you for your valuable feedback.Best wishes for you.