JOURNEY TO AESTHETICS

Hello dear aesthetic women of steem women's club, do you know that your elegance defines your personality and beauty? And that elegance is embedded in different aspects of your life like the way you communicate, your choice of fashion, your attitude when in public, the choices you make and so much more. Why not join me on the journey to aesthetic as I'll take you on a tour with a few I have known and learnt about feminine aesthetics.

Today I'll start with your manner of conversation, how do you communicate with people especially in a one to one conversation? Do you use very high or very low tones, do you buy time in your conversations using fillers like, 'uhm, ahhh, ehh, as in, like...'? Do you develop mannerism in an effort to show demonstration?. There are a thousand and one questions I would like to ask but I'll stop there.( And throw in a little picture of me🤭)

As females, it is only but natural to be gentle, raising your voice when conversing doesn't really sound feminine, it sounds rash and harsh to your listener. As a woman learn to talk less, even the Bible says be swift to listen and slow to speak Neither should you override or dominate a discussions.

Does that doesn't mean you have to use a very low tone to show your feminine gentleness? NO you are not not just beautiful you are a strong, ascertaining, confident and firm woman,so show it in the way you speak, speaking in low tones makes you look incapable and weak. More to that avoid extra ness when speaking, do not allow your hand movements to be so excessive that it turns to mannerism, if you are kind of very used to that, you can decide to cling to something in your hand probably your bag or even get your hands caught together.

When speaking, you might also have the tendency to use fillers like 'yeaaaaaaaa, uhmm, I mean, you knowww, errr' and all those stuff, please avoid it, it doesn't show that aesthetics in you, using such filler is more like buying time to gather what to say or to remember what to say and this doesn't make your conversations smooth, in fact you might notice your audience getting tired or sulked up with the conversation to avoid this, endeavorto prepare in advance what to say especially in a public event and take your time to answer or respond to anyone, 'never be in a rush'.

Another step to being aesthetic is detering from using slangs and being so obsolete in your conversation, using slangs doesn't in any way make you classy, even if you should use slang in an informal setting make it very minimal and try as much as possible to improve your vocabulary, widen out of your usual grammar, lookup new words and their proper pronunciations, watch more of educating programs like documentaries and little less of comics and reality shows, listen to good speakers of English, and search out for YouTube channels with value, and please avoid any incumberace when speaking, do not chew or get busy with your mouth while talking, it could get a bit irritating, just like how direct eyeball contact could be and sometimes even intimidating, rather than stare in a bizarre manner, maintain a natural look and posture.

Beautiful and aesthetic ladies, the list is endless and taking steps toward being aesthetic requires efforts and do not forget to smile because an aesthetic lady always wields a smile even in a conversion.
I hope to see you in my next episode on the journey to aesthetics, you can also put up your thoughts and posts on the journey to aesthetics don't forget to upvote, comment and even resteem on this post, if you like what you just read.