Hi there @greatideas

Solid read buddy.
My personal impression is that if we want people to change then we shall start with changing ourselfs. And hopefully our change will result with others around us changing some of their behavious as well.

Expecting that others will make changes with their own ways while not putting any offer to improve ourselfs - it is simply naive and won't work most of the time.

Many businessmen make the error of thinking that they can motivate their workers to working harder

This is very different. If someone pays for job being done then such a person may have expectations of their workers putting more effort. Nothing wrong with that.

ps.
Do you receive any of my discord messages? You did not reply for almost a year already

Yours,
Piotr