A child's basic needs are love and security

"A child's basic needs are love and security."

Some are planning to have children, but have not been given. Some do not plan to get it instead. There are still in the womb called by the owner. Anyone who has not been able to step on the earth has been called by their Owner. Some are given the opportunity to step on the earth for a moment, then called by the owner.

Birth and death are divine mysteries that cannot be cold or rejected. So wanted, but never received it. Want to refuse, but still experience it. This is what will happen every day in this life.

The presence of a tiny human named baby or child, in addition to happy parents who expect it, but also can be sad for those who do not expect birth.

Especially for those who have been waiting for his presence for years will be so happy extraordinary. Conversely those who are not happy, can just be left at the maternity hospital or hospital. Even more sad to be thrown in a certain place. The more sadistic ones will be killed immediately.

On the other hand, although waiting for the presence of the baby, but when you get it is not as expected, it can also cause disappointment. For example: a matter of gender, similarity, skin color or disability of the body or soul.

Indeed a child never hopes to be born. Children can never choose what kind of parents and where to be born. When born, the child will cry and his loving parents will hug him. Conversely those who do not like the presence, will feel disturbed or furious and can immediately to scold him, even shut his mouth.

Children's Day

In this world there is a memorial day for father, mother, child and family. Are there any grandchildren and great-grandchildren? The determination is different in some countries. But internationally there is a separate agreement among those who agree.

In Indonesia, Father's Day every November 12, Mother's Day every December 22, Children's Day every July 23 and Family Day every June 29.

National Children's Day is celebrated every July 23 in accordance with Presidential Decree No. 44/1984 on July 19, 1984.

Children's basic needs

Children are also human. But has a younger age and a smaller body compared to his parents. However, basic needs still do not differ much from adults inwardly.

There are two basic needs of children, namely love and security. There aren't many demands on real children. It's not a matter of money or a lot of wealth or luxury houses that he thinks about. But he wants to be with his father and mother always.

But economic demands forced his mother and father to work. Then the child will be lonely in its growth. He must think of his own fate in solitude, despite having complete parents. Especially if an only child.

Although there are other people who accompanied him, including his close family, but honestly his mind still wanted to be close to his own father and mother continuously. This is not just the meaning of quality time, but also quantity time.

How to Make Children Happy

Parental participation
The presence of parents is so enjoyed by children. Instead parents will experience burnout and feel a waste of time, while accompanying the little man in his daily life. Then the idea came to leave his child. But there is hardly ever anyone who wants to leave gold or diamonds for granted. Which is more valuable? Child or diamond?

Parents hug
A presence without love and a sense of security will not have an effect on the child's feelings. Although parents often hug children, but the child in himself will feel, is this a hug with sincerity or just pretend. Remember the child can feel. So don't just hug the child. There are hugs because of guilt, pity, passion or with sincerity.

Parental attention
Even though they have been present or have often embraced, they are not careful that they have finished their parents' tasks. Sometimes children act strange, it is not being an expression of delinquency. Children just want to find the attention of their parents. No more than 'just a caper'.

Parental guidance
Children are happy if the parents they 'trust' provide input or advice for them. Even though the child already knows the answer, sometimes he wants his parents' opinion. If you can't, then you will seek the opinion of others. Maybe this is just to confirm what he wants to do.

Thank you for reading.
I hope this is useful for all parents wherever you are

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