First of all, sorry for my late reply. I did read you earlier and today again and had it let sink first. It's clear by how you write you are emotional and I am sorry I am part of making you feel that way.
I understand your intentions were and are good and also how it is to be a moderator with certain groups where your own opinion doesn't count and it feels you are doing the wrong thing.
On the other hand I also understand the reactions of many Steemians receiving reprimandes or bumping into someone telling them what is expected. Today for example I read a comment written by @aneukpineung78 that made me wonder... (by now I know the answer because of the last post he wrote which I read).
Is it wrong or right to mention (tag) someone? It's hard to tell. There are so many reasons why we mention someone and I know if it comes to me I no longer see any need in doing so unless I think it might be interesting (benefit) for this person. I noticed in most of the times there's no response since notifications are hardly read if they arrive at all (not if more than three are mentioned).
What is a wise thing to do? Only what feels right for you and what is right is what you do at the moment you do it. Is there a right or wrong, can you always take into consideration what someone else might been through? I don't think this is realistic and if that would be the case why should this consideration only be one direction?
I know at the start of 2024 I tried to fit in, later I did my stinking best to help others (communities included) to grow and today I say NO. I don't see any point to help other grow, be the bag with money. Why should I? My life wasn't a bed of roses and I am not a rich girl the only reason I am here is to write tales. I didn't came much to it because I read a lot which is what I really like.
In 2024 I met some great people and I am grateful for that next to what I learned. Since it's true that Steemit is not only addicted but a great place if you want to learn something although I don't find that learning among the courses and contests offered.
I didn't set any goals but I will do as much as possible to do the things I like, offline and online, on Steemit. I learned from being abused and I won't let that happen again and no matter what is asked I can't go against my own principles I sacrificed too much (offline) to be where I am today.
That might sound selfish but I am happy with me and I like to keep it that way. Do I feel the need to always improve? No. I improved enough and those who don't like me are free to ignore me.
I hope you are okay and will do what feels right to you since that is the only thing that counts which reminds me of the new out-of-the-box contest I just posted in the freewriters (the topic wasn't my idea but if you like you can join. You can read my comment if you follow the link).
I wish you a great evening with freedom of mind and acting and loads of love.
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I was about to go call it a day when you changed my status and kept thinking, "Did I post a topic or just display my feelings?" But maybe that's what is a topic in this community. The next morning I saw your comment and then felt what I should write to acknowledge your comment and then got busy with my upcoming project.
I guess I need to acknowledge,
That might sound selfish but I am happy with me and I like to keep it that way. Do I feel the need to always improve? No. I improved enough and those who don't like me are free to ignore me.
Same here, but sometimes I feel maybe my definition of happiness is not the same as that of others, and I should adjust it a little according to others, but then, as you would say, "Why should I?"
I am okay with how I feel and act, and as long as others put me in a weird category.
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"The show must go on" is a good topic even if people don't read the title is good enough to make one think or have a look. Should your definition of happiness be the same as everyone else? I doubt mine is and the same counts for my definition of friendship, love, creativity, you name it.
All that counts is that you feel fine with what you do you being weird and I'm being crazy it gives a lot of freedom.
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So we reach to the conclusion the show must go on no matter what we see, read or feel but all part of the show. I have no problem as such because I have seen bad, worse, better and some of the best on different platforms during my online experince of over 20 years.
The endline is "The Show Must Go On"
No. The Show Will GO ON As Long AS It Feels Good
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Almost always, it takes time for us to get answers, and it takes more time to understand, and even more time to accept. I don't know what you two are dealing with but I hope you arrive at understanding and acceptance soon. You, Kitty, and @dove11 are among the Steemians I respect highly. Great weekend to all of us.
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We deal with the things we do and we wonder why we do what we do. Is it out of fun, responsibilities or payback for goodness? Do we read what we like or are we wasting time or is time an investment?
You left a comment in SEA which I found hard with all your you have to... and post in this community twice out of 4 times per week...
If it would be me just reading this I would say:... I am out of here.
After reading your post (sorry, SEA is not in my picture it feels like a group of vips only) Iunderstood that it's the price for the delegation.
I wonder why 100 though...
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A happy weekend to you with me
I can assure you that we two aren't dealing with anything or on loggerheads with each other but just exchanging our views, What I did was normal for me as a mod and what she did was her job as a curator. I am not too sure whether the usere I was dealing with was right or wrong because I have seen them all in different shapes and sizes. Thanks for your input, have a great Sunday!