The Show Must Go On
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Today, I faced a question from our beloved Steemian @wakeupkitty that shook me up. I am feeling why I am here on this site or why I am working as a mod or even SR! But then I thought, why not? The reality of life lies in the instability and change of human thoughts, and the biggest truth of life is that it is always changing. Happiness-sorrow, success-failure, everything is temporary. We should understand that no situation is permanent.
As it is said, "Everything changes with time." Accepting this change is the first step of life. I think it is our personal responsibility that we ourselves are responsible for our happiness and sorrows. No external power can save us from our destiny. Therefore, it is necessary to understand our actions and their consequences. As long as I am not doing anything against the rules, I must go on, and "The show must go on."
I was taught that we have to face the consequences of our actions. Don't you think that in such a situation we have to face meaninglessness, and many times it seems that everything in life is meaningless? So even if she feels I am doing something meaningless, maybe she is right or maybe not, but let me try before I feel it that way.
This feeling arises when we forget our goals or when we lose our identity (and I have never forgotten my identity or goals). Therefore, it is important to know the purpose of our life and keep working towards achieving it. But these struggles and difficulties that come in our life are natural. These difficulties form the basis of our development. Failures are often the steps to success, which make us stronger and inspire us to move forward.
So what should we do in such a situation? Today I am a little emotional, so I understand that identifying our soul and building a relationship with reality is an important truth of life. When we understand the reality, then we are able to know the real meaning of life. This knowledge gives us inner peace and satisfaction.
We know that human nature is the basic tendency or quality of a person, which affects his thoughts, feelings, and behavior. Nature is formed by personal experiences, environment, and innate qualities. So what I did was expected of me as per the rules but that's not an excuse.
Here is another example
Recently I had invited a steemian in one of my posts, and he had replied to me in a strange way. His talk was about divine qualities. I believe that anger, greed, and divine influence are present in human nature, just like love and kindness are both types of qualities. These qualities determine our behaviour and create our image in society, but at the same time, man is a social animal, and his nature also depends on his social relations.
While interacting with different people, it is necessary to understand their nature so that we can maintain harmony. I probably made a mistake in understanding him. I think that in that case karma showed its effect, and I got the result of my karma immediately.
Now you will also agree that I know my nature, and when such cases happen, it is necessary to try to improve it. When we go through such situations, we try to remove our shortcomings; then we can become a better person. Well, I understand that such incidents teach us the truths of life, and we learn from our experiences and move forward.
Perhaps the nature of others tells us how to identify our shortcomings and overcome them. That incident taught me a lot and played a vital role in making my lack of status worthwhile. Such experiences will definitely prevent me from tagging anyone in the future, even if I did it for their benefit. Reality of life and human nature.
The reality of life and human nature is a deep subject that involves life experiences, struggles, and inner instincts of human beings. This subject is not only important from the philosophical point of view, but it is also deeply connected to our daily life.
The reality of life lies in the instability and change of human life, and the biggest truth of life is that it is always changing. Happiness-sorrow, success-failure, everything is temporary. We should understand that no situation is permanent. As it is said, "Everything changes with time." Accepting this change is the first step of life, isn't it?.
I think it is our personal responsibility that we ourselves are responsible for our happiness and sorrows. No external power can save us from our destiny. Therefore, it is necessary to understand our actions and their consequences. From the spiritual point of view, it is also taught that we have to face the consequences of our actions.
Don't you think that in such a situation we have to face meaninglessness, and many times it seems that everything in life is meaningless? This feeling arises when we forget our goals or when we lose our identity. Therefore, it is important to know the purpose of our life and keep working towards achieving it.
But these struggles and difficulties that come in our life are natural. These difficulties form the basis of our development. Failures are often the steps to success, which make us stronger and inspire us to move forward.
So what should we do in such a situation? Today I am a little emotional, so I understand that identifying our soul and building a relationship with the soul is an important truth of life. When we understand our soul, then we are able to know the real meaning of life. This knowledge gives us inner peace and satisfaction.
We know that human nature is the basic tendency or quality of a person, which affects his thoughts, feelings, and behavior. Nature is formed by personal experiences, environment, and innate qualities. Recently I had invited a steemian in one of my posts, and he had replied to me in a strange way. His talk was about divine qualities.
I believe that anger, greed, and divine influence are present in human nature, just like love and kindness are both types of qualities. These qualities determine our behaviour and create our image in society, but at the same time, man is a social animal, and his nature also depends on his social relations.
It could be different interacting with different people, but it is necessary to understand their nature so that we can maintain harmony. I probably made a mistake in understanding him. I think that in that case karma showed its effect, and I got the result of my karma immediately. But does it give the same result to everyone?
Now you will also agree that I know my nature, and when such cases happen, it is necessary to try to improve it. When we go through such situations, we try to remove our shortcomings; then we can become a better person.
Well, I understand that such incidents teach us the truths of life, and we learn from our experiences and move forward. Perhaps the nature of others tells us how to identify our shortcomings and overcome them.
This incident taught me a lot and played a vital role in making my lack of status worthwhile. Such experiences will definitely prevent me from tagging anyone in the future, even if I did it for their benefit. I know I am sounding different but that's how I feel.
@josepha @simonnwigwe and @heriadi
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I’m sorry about that experience. This doesn’t mean you should not tag anyone in future
You may benefit from it as well
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can you explain to me what the experience was?
No worries, my experience was not as bad as you thought but a normal routine job.
First of all, sorry for my late reply. I did read you earlier and today again and had it let sink first. It's clear by how you write you are emotional and I am sorry I am part of making you feel that way.
I understand your intentions were and are good and also how it is to be a moderator with certain groups where your own opinion doesn't count and it feels you are doing the wrong thing.
On the other hand I also understand the reactions of many Steemians receiving reprimandes or bumping into someone telling them what is expected. Today for example I read a comment written by @aneukpineung78 that made me wonder... (by now I know the answer because of the last post he wrote which I read).
Is it wrong or right to mention (tag) someone? It's hard to tell. There are so many reasons why we mention someone and I know if it comes to me I no longer see any need in doing so unless I think it might be interesting (benefit) for this person. I noticed in most of the times there's no response since notifications are hardly read if they arrive at all (not if more than three are mentioned).
What is a wise thing to do? Only what feels right for you and what is right is what you do at the moment you do it. Is there a right or wrong, can you always take into consideration what someone else might been through? I don't think this is realistic and if that would be the case why should this consideration only be one direction?
I know at the start of 2024 I tried to fit in, later I did my stinking best to help others (communities included) to grow and today I say NO. I don't see any point to help other grow, be the bag with money. Why should I? My life wasn't a bed of roses and I am not a rich girl the only reason I am here is to write tales. I didn't came much to it because I read a lot which is what I really like.
In 2024 I met some great people and I am grateful for that next to what I learned. Since it's true that Steemit is not only addicted but a great place if you want to learn something although I don't find that learning among the courses and contests offered.
I didn't set any goals but I will do as much as possible to do the things I like, offline and online, on Steemit. I learned from being abused and I won't let that happen again and no matter what is asked I can't go against my own principles I sacrificed too much (offline) to be where I am today.
That might sound selfish but I am happy with me and I like to keep it that way. Do I feel the need to always improve? No. I improved enough and those who don't like me are free to ignore me.
I hope you are okay and will do what feels right to you since that is the only thing that counts which reminds me of the new out-of-the-box contest I just posted in the freewriters (the topic wasn't my idea but if you like you can join. You can read my comment if you follow the link).
I wish you a great evening with freedom of mind and acting and loads of love.
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Almost always, it takes time for us to get answers, and it takes more time to understand, and even more time to accept. I don't know what you two are dealing with but I hope you arrive at understanding and acceptance soon. You, Kitty, and @dove11 are among the Steemians I respect highly. Great weekend to all of us.
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We deal with the things we do and we wonder why we do what we do. Is it out of fun, responsibilities or payback for goodness? Do we read what we like or are we wasting time or is time an investment?
You left a comment in SEA which I found hard with all your you have to... and post in this community twice out of 4 times per week...
If it would be me just reading this I would say:... I am out of here.
After reading your post (sorry, SEA is not in my picture it feels like a group of vips only) Iunderstood that it's the price for the delegation.
I wonder why 100 though...
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A happy weekend to you with me
I can assure you that we two aren't dealing with anything or on loggerheads with each other but just exchanging our views, What I did was normal for me as a mod and what she did was her job as a curator. I am not too sure whether the usere I was dealing with was right or wrong because I have seen them all in different shapes and sizes. Thanks for your input, have a great Sunday!
I was about to go call it a day when you changed my status and kept thinking, "Did I post a topic or just display my feelings?" But maybe that's what is a topic in this community. The next morning I saw your comment and then felt what I should write to acknowledge your comment and then got busy with my upcoming project.
I guess I need to acknowledge,
That might sound selfish but I am happy with me and I like to keep it that way. Do I feel the need to always improve? No. I improved enough and those who don't like me are free to ignore me.
Same here, but sometimes I feel maybe my definition of happiness is not the same as that of others, and I should adjust it a little according to others, but then, as you would say, "Why should I?"
I am okay with how I feel and act, and as long as others put me in a weird category.