How can we raise children? || Steem Kids & Parents

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How to Raise Children:

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Children always note everything their parents say and try to do what their parents teach them. It means we raise our children like our parents.Maybe we learned some good things. Tips on parenting.She explains how you can be a good parent so that your children can have a better start in life. At the same time you don't have to try too hard for it. But at some point we cross the line.Even if you find that you allow your children to be a little more independent, you still need to set some boundaries.But how to make a limit of love? The answer lies within 'I', not 'you'. You have to clarify your role, not your children's. Not ready to allow.' Someone else should talk about them like that. So define yourself, not your children.

Accept Every Mood of your Children:

Our mistake is that we want our children to be extremely happy all the time,It's like we love them too much to never see them down. So we tell them: 'Don't be sad.' All of the child's feelings should be acknowledged so that the child is no longer frustrated when they feel sad or angry. It would not be wrong to say that you are their human reflection. You have dirty shoes!', so they will always see your angry face.It is important that you joke with them first and then mention the dirty shoes.You should always try to show happiness when you meet them.

Any kind of Behaviour is a way to Talk:

If you think there is something wrong with your child's behavior. So remember this: All behavior is a way of communicating.Children want to tell you something with this kind of behavior and this is the best way for them to say it.So you should try to find out the real meaning of such behavior and then help them to express what they feel in clear words without hesitation.

We accept all their Feelings:

We should, of course, if it doesn't feel right. We should teach children to express their feelings and not worry that What would you do if you were in their place? Each person is different from the other.

Important Note:

We should obey everything our children say because if we don't then the children will be stubborn which will harm the parents and the same children will not obey you when they grow up.

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Regards

@rabnawazsardar

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Hello @rabnawazsardar thank you so much for airing out your view concerning child rearing, indeed children learn from parents example more than what they are being told.

We should obey everything our children say because if we don't then the children will be stubborn which will harm the parents and the same children will not obey you when they grow up.

I don't really get you here, do you mean parents should obey their children? If yes is your answer Then I think 🤔 your mistaken because the reverse should be the case. Parents should not be permissive (I mean permissive parent tend to raise irresponsible kids, a me first kids), they shouldn't be authoritarian but rather the should strike balance ⚖️ between being authoritarian and permissive ~ Authoritative.

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