Joined Family System or Sperate Home which one is better for kids upbringing? by @blessingogah-1

My view about joined family system and separate home

This is a wonderful contest, not just wonderful but an inspiring topic and I would like to express my thoughts on it based on my limited experience. I come from a monogamous family that includes only my mother, father, and siblings, and we are still together to this day, the bond that exist between us needs to be studied and is something I want everyone to experience even though every family has a unique bond between themselves.

A separate home implies that the father and mother will not be in the same location or house when training the children, while a joined household means that both families live and will work together to train the children. Logically speaking, you will agree with me that a child raised by both parents outperforms one raised by only one mother or father.

In my opinion, every child requires both male and female directions. When you have both of your parents training you in the same house, you will have this for yourself, however if you do not have them, you will end up training one while leaving the other. Every child need parents who will train him/her in the way of the lord. And it requires the effort of both parents.

It is very important for a child to see things from both his mother's and father's perspectives, which can only be accomplished if they are present to tell him or her how they perceive it. So, I believe a combined family is better for a child's upbringing than a separate home. A child will have the opportunity to learn from both parents, which is a really wonderful thing in my opinion.

Since I grew up with both of my parents, I've been able to hear their perspectives on a variety of issues, and after careful consideration, I always integrate them to achieve a better solution. So I improve every day because I hear and learn from them both.
Another important aspect is that I have the freedom to select which person's point of view or lifestyle is best for me, given that both of my parents guide me. I constantly listen to and learn from them both, and the life I now lead is a result of what I've learned from both of them.

My both parents are my role model and that was possible because I lived with them all my life. They taught me the importance of giving, contentment, genuine love for both families and outsiders, they taught me to always put family first. There were so many things I learned from them and will still be learning that would be beneficial to me when I finally have my own home.

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In conclusion
I want to conclude by saying a joint home is better than a separate home when it comes to child upbringing. As it is always said two good heads are better than one bringing up a child in a good way requires the effort of both parents and it is important for us parents to put our child first before our plite.

Thanks for reading and I look forward to reading from you too.
I'm inviting @adylinah @yancar and @bossj23 to participate in this contest.