I agree with you that lack of information, a lack if it comes to raising your child is the main reason of unwanted pregnancies. It's 2024 for so I wonder what happened.

With you I agree tv, films do have a negative influence just like all the porn. It's far from realustuc and most sex scenes add nothing to the storyline. I am still happy we no longer watch tv (anout 20 years by now) and if it comes to romance we can learn a lot from korean films.

We avoid watching American film they are all the same.

All I can say is I can not judge about others feelings of extreme fear, people are not the same and plenty who can swim still drown. ☹️