It's a hard life and negativity won't make you a survivor but that doesn't mean you should except everything.
It's my belief and experience that life only changes if you learn the lessons to be learned. These lessons are the problems we struggle with and those problems will return and return till we learned and.. change. If not there's no way up.
You look great in that dress with the rose (on the roof again dear, didn't you used to celebrate with your friends there, Christmas or birthdays or was it someone else's roof?).
Well, I am home alone from tonight on since the children fly away (home as in me and the wolves and the sick cat).
You know where to find me if you like a chat a celebrate together.

Within the family, we have the same.. young moms and old moms, uncles, aunts younger than nieces, and nephews, but no one sees it as weird besides "uncle" and "aunt" is not longer said.

P.s. is it steam on or steem on?

A warm hug to you!