I felt inspired to cast a few cards on your situation. I hope you won't be offended, it comes from positive intent. Maybe you are secular enough to not get mad at Tarot cards. ;)

Question
What can @eugenekul do to maximize his wife's healing?

Page of Wands, 2 of Swords, Page of Swords

• Exude loving, positive healing energy towards her. (Page of Wands)

• Neutralized any negative emotion. It simply does not serve. Be of peace of mind. (2 of Swords)

• Keep a hidden eye on her (your eye or somebody else's) at times, because she might be concealing her need for assistance. Her positive intent in this regard may delay her healing. She is just trying to be good to you, thats all.

Wishing her a speedy recovery!