Update:

So I started to really pick apart this forgiveness thing, and I think that it’s a far more relative concept than to blanket our responses to our trespassers. Meaning, it all depends if the offense is something you can legitimately move past. In the sense of a cheating significant other, I can forgive. However, a pedofile - or in a case like yours where the offender doesn’t get help.

To forgive means we go back to the way it was. It never happened.

I’m sorry — but pedofiles should be monitored at all times and what they do to children - isn’t a wound that can heal fully. Therefore it’s nearly impossible to go back to the way it was.