@sulimur wow this is such a heartwarming reply you sent. I do my best to inspire people by sharing what has happened to us, and we are back on our feet now but in another country.. the 2 oldest kids are still with their father.. So my goal now is to finish my book this year, that will make more people aware and I am planning to go to the european court or human rights, as this should have never happened due to government flaws. I want all my kids together, as you can understand ;) Thanks so much for your support! Anouk