RE: The Reality of Radical Feminism's Unholy Alliance With 'The State' and the Effects on Children
Hecate,
While there are undoubtedly some cases of legitimately battered and legitimately abused women and children worldwide, it is only a perceived "epidemic" due to all the state and federal funding available ostensibly to "help" women and children (code talk for making them DEPENDENT on the Holy State for survival). It's the same reason there would be an "epidemic" of rock smashing companies popping up if the omnipotent state PAID people millions of dollars to smash rocks. In the interest of personal responsibility and rationality, we have to acknowledge that in America today there is a literal cult of dumbed down, brainwashed, 'social justice warrior' type so-called 'women' who actually believe that the mere fact they were born with vaginas is the equivalent of being sentenced to a life of doom, a form of automatic and institutionalized "victimization". This is the underlying problem and mindset much of the time in the USA. So-called "abused" women in the USA, like my spoiled ex-wife, for example, who experienced zero "abuse", zero adultery (except on her part), zero drug addiction, zero alcoholism, etc., would have you believe that her inability to live in Disney World at least 365 days/year is the equivalent of "domestic violence". This sickening contemporary "poor victim female" mindset is actually extremely insulting and utterly laughable to REAL women who are suffering REAL victimization and REAL brutalization worldwide in various third world shit-holes on a daily basis. Spoiled, bratty, unappreciative, and generally obnoxious American women (in many cases, not all) really need to wake up to how good they have it relative to women in much of the world and stop pretending to be such "poor victims" all the time just because it helps them milk the Communist system we now live under. These 'women' have literally destroyed (and continue destroying) their own civilization and societies with near total State endorsement and encouragement since NOTHING is more dangerous to the cult of the omnipotent State than an educated, free-thinking, independent, self-reliant, self-sufficient FATHER having any influence or authority over his own family and/or the raising of his own children.
I dont know how well traveled you are, but I can assure you that US women do not "have it good" compared with other cultures. Lack of access to healthcare, maternity leave, the ubiquity of pornography and the rape culture which permeates US society is a perfect storm. Your characterisation of "REAL women" suggering "REAL victimisation" and "REAL brutalisation" contrasted with US women, many of women cannot even access basic reproductive healthcare, such as effective contraception, abortion and maternity care, suggests that you are not.
But then I would go further, because to me your comment reads to me very much like the kind of narrative that a REAL abuser, whose wife had managed to escape the control of, would construct. Your misogyny is on show, and its not pretty.
OMG, you are obviously a clueless inexperienced leftist SJW type. It's not the state's job nor duty to provide you with birth control, healthcare, etc.!! These are NOT legitimate government functions. The ONLY way government can provide anything is through the THEFT of the labor of others, which is immoral. Are you pro-theft? Do you claim to have a right to seize my labor and abilities so that you can buy condoms for your own activities and pleasure? Regarding "misogyny", you are dead wrong. I actually love respectable honorable brilliant women like Ayn Rand and Lauren Southern. You should look them up and let them be your mentors in life. The State is NOT your savior. It will let you down every single time.
jees...cishet white men are so touchy, touchy, touchy. Its not women's job to provide you with babies - if you want a baby, go gestate one yourself rather than through the THEFT of the (pregnancy and ) labour of others.
I'm defo with your ex-wife here. Run, girl..RUUUUN!
Race has nothing to do with anything. Children need the stability of BOTH biological parents or societal chaos inevitably results. This is really the sole purpose of marriage, to provide a stable environment in which to raise children. If women want to abandon their wedding vows and responsibilities to their own kids and families in order to go party and have more random sex before their biological clocks expire (most often stealing children from their fathers without his consent and with the aid of state force, using them merely as pretexts for extortion under the guise of 'child support'), they need to do so on their own dime and leave the children with their fathers or civilization will collapse. Divorce with children under the age of 18 should be EXTREMELY difficult for the sake of the children, but 'the state' thrives on orchestrated chaos, disorder, destruction, and collapse, which is why it deliberately promotes and encourages the destruction of marriage, the placing children in harm's way, and the destruction of the family unit. In this manner, the state ensures for itself a pipeline full of future social ills to then be "solved" by an ever-increasing cesspool of bureaucrats, agencies, higher tax rates, and bloated budgets, which of course only exacerbate the problems (which is the true intent after all!). Eventually such parasites overwhelm their hosts as even the healthiest of dogs can provide blood to only a finite number of ticks and fleas. You really need to get informed on this racket and industry hecate: www.DivorceCorp.com, www.LeonKoziol.com
You say that you dont like the state, but who is going to enforce the marriage?
What is marriage if it is not a state and/or religious enforced institution. People should be free to have the relationships they choose.
There is a very easy way of guaranteeing that your spouse will never divorce you - dont get married.
Marriage is NOT a state institution hecate. That's a public school myth along with many other such indoctrinations. It is primarily a religious and cultural institution which has been shown to be important for the purpose of raising kids. The state only got involved with "licensing" marriage to allow for inter-racial marriage which is reportedly biblically prohibited and was not legal for many decades. Look it up. You have a right to marry with no "license". It is not a state-granted privilege despite propaganda.
In any divorce, (which should have legitimate grounds like adultery, addiction, or abuse), the state's/church's only legitimate role is to PROTECT individual rights and children's relationships with their parents at all cost, NOT to destroy them and turn it into a child trafficking INDUSTRY for profit as is the situation today. If an immature idiotic parent just decides they're not having sufficient "fun" anymore and wants to make decisions according to their hormones and 'feelings' and go party with new sex partners (a very common and destructive theme for 'mothers' around age 30-37 as their biological clocks are winding down), she should not then be granted control of the children and have her extremely destructive and immoral behavior further REWARDED with funds extorted from the responsible parent opposing it all. So-called 'no-fault' divorce is a cancer upon the family, children, and society and it's all being done BY DESIGN. Sure, you should be free to have the relationships you want AND suffer all accompanying consequences at your OWN expense. I agree that no one should get married under today's diabolical, pro-destruction, pro-theft, anti-family, anti-child system which punishes good and rewards evil.
Ah...you think God should step in and stop all these divorces.
Good luck on that one...
Not necessarily hecate. We can have "rational morality" even without 'God' if you are atheist-inclined. Just study Ayn Rand (the most brilliant woman to ever walk the earth) or watch this historic interview of her with Mike Wallace:
Ayn Rand First Interview 1959 (Full)
All it takes is opting out of an evil ('Satanic' if you will) system wherein weak-minded individuals voluntarily sacrifice their own marriages, children, and families at the altar of the State, buying into the myth that there will be only wonderful consequences and that the false idol of the "Holy State" is their "savior". It's a mirage and a lie, but the parasites who set up these destructive systems for their own benefit will be happy to take your money while en route to Hell.