Here we are again. It is yet another beautiful Saturday night and yes it is 6pm, time for your favorite show, Saturday Night With Zizy. This is episode 11 and the responses have been amazing so far. It is a great feeling knowing that this show is impacting lives and strengthening relationships on the block chain and outside the block chain. Keep the testimonies coming, guys.

As it is my habit I shall first of all give honour to whom honour is due. These set of people and some new faces made last week’s outing a superb one. It gives me thrills to know that some people take time out of their busy schedule to appreciate the work I’m doing by dropping wonderful comments. The likes of @dubem-eu, @cornholio, @one-person, @adore-eu, @christianolu, @tochprince, @mizdais, @shollstun, @preciousimo, @mittymartz, @jeaniepearl, @surfyogi, @korexe, @omoyiwolabusayo, @urchice, @aksapphires, @holybranches, @scarletmedia, @doris-adioha, @ttopswag, @eurogee, @adabless, @rebeccafl, @vheobong and some others who have been regulars but for one reason or the other weren’t able to make it last week. I want y’all to know that you have a special spot in my heart. Thank you guys for coming around and I hope to see more of you.

Without much ado, DJ play the music in jenifa’s voice…..LOL

RELATIONSHIP TALK WITH ZIZY

Last week, we had a very interesting outing on the topic, is it just sex or he wants more. Those of us who attended the radio show and after party on airhawk discord server had so much fun as we rubbed minds together and did justice to the above topic. During the show, @samuelwealth said, “it is true that some men want just sex but there are also women who want just sex. How can a man be able to decipher this?” Even though I had something else in mind to talk about thus week, it is only fair I balance out the equation.

IS IT SEX OR SHE WANTS MORE?

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It is generally accepted that men want sex but it may surprise you to know that there are some women out there who just want a romp in the hay. The increasing number of the so called cougars is a testament to the number of women who enjoy a no-strings attached sex. Some young ladies are satisfied with just casual dating. It could be that they got out of a messy relationship but have sexual urges that vibrators cannot fill the gap or it could be a very adventurous and sexually active young lady who enjoys having the opportunity to flirt with as many men as she desires without being accountable to anyone.

The relationship could have started off as just casual dating but then her personality, charm and the sound of her laughter got you enchanted and now you want more. You have high hopes that the sex is great and so she would be excited to take this to another level. When a woman notices you are trying to force things and she is not interested, she becomes repelled and starts backing off.

A woman can find you attractive but only in a sexual way. To such a woman, talks about exclusivity make her uncomfortable. That subject is feminine in mature and she sees you as acting like the woman and so she gives you the response men give when a lady wants to know where a relationship is headed. It will be a lot easier for her to come out and say she wants just sex and risks being called a slut, nah, she will rather play her game smoothly and hopes you understand. Once your sex game is top notch, she becomes clingy just to keep having that fantasy. Do not be deceived that all women looking for a partner are looking for a long term relationship regardless of the pressure on her to settle down. Sometimes, they just want to have fun with no responsibilities.

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HOW DO YOU KNOW IT IS JUST SEX OR SHE WANTS MORE.

1. It is just sex when she gives you a mixture of good emotions and painful ones. A woman who wants sex will keep having sex but at the same time not define what it is all about and when you try to define it she acts like ice. She leaves you wondering what it is she really wants. She gives you as much space as possible and the only intimate time with her is during sex.

2. It is just sex when the communication is poor. Women love attention, they love to have you call them or chat them up all the time. A woman who wants just sex will hardly respond to your chats or calls except she is horny. On a not horny day, her responses to your chats are delayed and in monosyllables. The conversation is either boring or flirtatious but never meaningful. She enjoys flirting with you but not talking to you and even when you meet up, she makes no effort to keep the conversation going.

3. It is just sex if she shows no genuine interest in your person/personality. It is crazy to discover after six months of romping in the hay that you know nothing private about her neither does she know any private thing about you. A woman who wants just sex is not interested about your person or personality. She doesn’t care about your future ambitions or profession or hobbies. Even when you try to talk about these things, it is clear she has no genuine interest. The only thing she wants to know is when next you are meeting up.

4. It is just sex if she acts sexual with you all the time. Phone calls have a sexual undertone and chats are filled with sex talks. The few times you hang out or spend time together, she is either squeezing your ass or biting your earlobe. She is always the first to initiate sex. Whenever you try to make her understand how special she is to you, she is always quick to remind you that you are just friends.

5. It is only sex when she is always inviting you over. Many men do not understand this language. A woman who never wants to hangout but always wants behind closed door meetings in her crib is clearly just after sex. She hardly visits you and when she does, she never sleeps over. Once the sex is over, she ups and leaves.

6. It is just sex if she talks without discretions. She tells you about her past not caring if you will be judgmental or not. She is quick to talk about the naughty impulsive stuff she has had with other men in the past. A lady who wants a future with you will be stingy with information she gives out about her private life so as not to be seen in a bad light. She tells you about the guy coming over next weekend and even makes you choose the sexy lingerie she would wear when he comes over.

7. It is just sex when she cares about investing on you. This is for the cougars. They feel the need to invest on you or reward you financially.
   
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   These are all generic signs and may or may not mean something. Whether a woman wants a one night stand or a fling, it doesn’t mean she is easy and will always be open to anything. The decision is yours to make. You can decide to dump her, keep her or make her chase you. You can decide to make that sexual encounter worthwhile. You never know when it will end. Step up your oral sex techniques, be aggressive and strong but sensual and tender. Don’t express love verbally, let her feel it but don’t give her complete certainty about it then pull away, get her very jealous and watch her chase after you.

DATING TIPS

No relationship can be successful if you don’t feel good about yourself both inside and out. Take care of yourself.

FUN CORNER (JUST FOR LAUGHS)

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Ladies, have you ever waited for your period that you knelt down and prayed to God that if I see my period this time, I will never have sex again?

DEAR ZIZY

ANONYMOUS 1

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Hi @zizymena, please I need help. There is this female colleague of mine that has the hots for me. The way she flirts with me recently has always given me concern but I pretend not to read meanings into it because we have been friends and colleagues for 5 years now. Some days ago, she came into my office and made a verbal proclamation, telling me how much feelings she has for me and how she wants a relationship. I was shocked because it took me unawares moreover I am in a relationship. I made her understand this fact and since then she has sworn me as an enemy for life. She changed towards me and refuses to talk to me. I'm worried because I miss our friendship. Please how do I handle this situation?

ANONYMOUS 2

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I need to understand women. My girlfriend is weird. She is a nice girl but she is weird. She never visits me and when I visit her she will never give me food or even water and sometimes I spend the whole day with her and goes back home hungry except the days I go out to buy snacks for myself and she will still share it with me. Sex is not amazing because she only enjoys spooning and heads and my waist is paining me from too much spooning. The other day she practically chased me out of her house in the name of expecting an August visitor. I love her and she tells me she loves me but I feel she is using me. Please post and keep me ANONYMOUS. I'll be in the comment section.

CONCLUSION

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I hate to leave you but leave you I must. Until next time when I come your way again, same time, same blog, more hosts, I remain

Yours truly

@zizymena.

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