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RE: TGIF with @jeaniepearl.....episode 1
Thank you for posting my shout out.
My bestfriend is a guy and I sure as hell get jealous when I see him with a girl but one thing I learnt from this is I will always be special to him, though it may be different from how he loves his woman
It all comes down to trust and security, once you trust your partner and you are secure enough in your commitment to each other, having a bestie of the opposite sex isn't a problem.
Yes i partially agree with you but I beg to dissent from your view,there's a greater possibility and risk of affairs when you make an opposite sex your bestie,i have a practical example of a female friend who's bestie is also a guy and for a long time everything was fine until she had issues with her fiance and in the process of the guy (her bestie) trying to comfort her,took her out and one thing led to the other until sex happened. The lady latter settled her differences with her fiance and they are back together but before everything was sorted she had already had sex with her bestie 3 times. Even though the above situation may not apply to everyone i will say prevention is better than cure. Moreso when it's a very thin line that is between love,care and sex for a woman,most women are tempted to give their body to someone who really cares and is there for them rather than the tittle you bear to them.
My pleasure
Hmmm sounds like you have a thing for him
Maybe I do. I guess. I don't know (grins)
Hahahahaha
Maybe, on a serious note nothing special just being honest as a result of my experience.