Jadeline, I wanna hug you so hard right now. Of course, I remember Jansen, his condition and the post you did on it. While I am sorry he and your family had to go through a tough time, I am so proud of you and Jansen for taking it so strongly and for turning an adversity into a time to bond together and love each other more. Slowing down sometimes or even often is the best way to unwind and get better perspective of things. I have been doing the same and it is really relaxing me. And yes I can relate to your feeling of wanting to have more time. We're in the same boat sister from another mister. Love you!