RE: Every Once in a While, it is Okay to Slow Down a Little...
Since young I was so used to being no.1 that striving for excellence has become a part of me. Until I realise it depletes my joy to a certain level when stress becomes real. Then Jansen comes along. My 2nd son whom has a condition if you remember. I could not help but to be a stay-at-home muddling with a mundane job as a 'nurse' to him handling all the medical stuff. At 1 point, Infelt defeated watching others strive for excellence in the rat race while I was behind the door gradually losing sight. But as years pass by, I learn that it is okay to not be the max excellence, but to enjoy every minute happy moment at home. I am happier now and less stress. Stumbling upon Steemit helps alot. It forces me out of cocoon and while juggling things around the house, I get to blog and connect with people when I am free. And have my voice be heard by new found friends here such as you. However, need to remind myself steemit is not another rat race for me so I am cruising with my own pace here as well. Would not want to be a stressful woman. I know when it is going to happen. I love what you have been writing. It always relate. Just wish I have more time you know. ☺
Jadeline, I wanna hug you so hard right now. Of course, I remember Jansen, his condition and the post you did on it. While I am sorry he and your family had to go through a tough time, I am so proud of you and Jansen for taking it so strongly and for turning an adversity into a time to bond together and love each other more. Slowing down sometimes or even often is the best way to unwind and get better perspective of things. I have been doing the same and it is really relaxing me. And yes I can relate to your feeling of wanting to have more time. We're in the same boat sister from another mister. Love you!